قَوۡلٌ مَّعۡرُوۡفٌ وَّمَغۡفِرَةٌ خَيۡرٌ مِّنۡ صَدَقَةٍ يَّتۡبَعُهَاۤ اَذًىؕ وَاللّٰهُ غَنِىٌّ حَلِيۡمٌ
Polite conversation (with the needy) and extending tolerance are far better than charity followed by injuring (his) heartAnd Allah is Self-Sufficient, Forbearing.